Judaism/Spirituality

ABORTION. Q.  Does Judaism permit abortions? A.  Judaism regards children as a blessing and procreation as a religious and moral obligation. Through children a couple cement their own relationship and ensure personal and cultural continuity. Through children they enrich the world:  who knows whether the child they bring to life …

THE 21 DAYS. The fast of Tishah B’Av is the culmination of the Three Weeks, which are known as “Bein Ham’tzarim” – “Between the Straits”. This is based on a verse from Echah 1:3, “All her (Israel’s) pursuers caught her between the straits“. One view is that the verse is …

      WHO WAS PINCHAS? Pinchas had “pi-nechas (nechoshet)”, “a mouth of brass”. He was a gallant warrior who was indignant when he saw people rebelling against God and the Torah. As a priest, a grandson of Aharon HaKohen, he should never have taken up a weapon and killed …

KEEPING ALL 613 COMMANDMENTS. Q.  Does anyone keep all the 613 commandments? A.  There are two answers, the practical and the theoretical: 1. The practical answer: many commandments only apply to certain groups (kings, farmers, judges, women, kohanim, etc.) or certain places and times (the land of Israel, the time …

WHAT IS GOD? I can only give a personal view. There are two reasons. One: we all have our own take on God. I cannot be certain that my father’s God is the same as mine. I can’t be a believer with my father’s heart, only with my own. Two: …

AMEN. Q. Why do we say Amen after certain prayers? A. From one point of view, saying Amen shows that we care. When you hear a statement of fact or opinion and are concerned enough to say Amen, you are not indifferent or apathetic. You know there are some things …

NOT COMMANDMENTS Central to Shavu’ot is the Revelation on Mount Sinai, where God gave “Aseret HaDibrot” (Ex. 20:1-14). We call them “The Ten Commandments” in English, so why isn’t the Hebrew “Aseret HaMitzvot”? The Hebrew means “Ten Words”. “Word” has several meanings; in this context it is like the phrase, …

B’RACHAH OR KIDDUSH? Q.  In South Africa the refreshments after a Shabbat service are called a “b’rachah”.  Elsewhere it is a “kiddush”. Which one is right? A.  It is all very confusing, very interesting and very wonderful to see how the other half lives. Many communities have their own way …

HANDLING YOUR EMPLOYEES. Q.  What does the Talmud mean when it says that whoever acquires a servant acquires a master over himself? A.  The source is Kiddushin 20a.  In the literal sense it probably means that an employer is at his/her workers’ mercy. The workers know the business cannot continue …

HANSEN’S LAW. Pesach, when the Haggadah talks of parents whose children ask, “What are the testimonies and the statutes of the Torah?”, is the tailor-made occasion when observers of Jewish life get a reminder of Hansen’s Law which says, “What the son wishes to forget, the grandson wishes to remember”. …

WHAT IS THE QUESTION? Abraham Joshua Heschel said that our generation knows the answers but has forgotten the questions. With regard to Pesach we know that our ancestors were slaves in Egypt, God redeemed them and took them out across the Red Sea to become a free nation, and we …

If you were to be plucked out of your kitchen table without any notice and transported to the same location, albeit 1000 years in the past, how useful would your information be? If science fiction and modern novels are to be your guide, you could assume it would help you …

PSALM 22 – THE PURIM STORY IN POETRY There is a rabbinic tradition that links Psalm 22 with Purim. The psalm is headed, “For the Leader, upon Ayelet HaShachar”. This phrase literally means “the hind of the morning”, which some views regard as a musical instrument or a melody. The …

“The cure for everything is salt water: sweat, tears or the sea” – Karen Blixen. Couples beginning to create a family know all too well the investment and challenges a family unit brings.  Financial costs aside, the mere newfound responsibilities are daunting. Starting from the first step of pregnancy and …

JEWISH VIEW OF LAWYERS. Q.. A few weeks ago you answered a question about doctors and said that Judaism regarded them as doing God’s work. Is there a Jewish view of lawyers? A.. Despite the fact that so many Jews are lawyers, Judaism was ambivalent about whether it approved of …

DOES GOD CARE HOW WE WORSHIP HIM? Q. Whether in a synagogue, church or mosque, does God really care how people worship Him? A. Our prayer does more for the one who prays than for God. He is not improved by our praise. He is perfect already. Humans are susceptible …

ETHICS IN BUSINESS. Q.  How can some people be unethical in business even though they keep kosher homes? A.  I honestly don’t know. What you eat and how you live your life are part of one and the same Torah. There are no marks for picking and choosing the commandments …

TORAH IN SPACE. Q.  Can the mitzvot be observed in space? A. The general principle is that the mitzvot are for “all the days which you are alive on this earth” (Deut. 12:1). The view of Rabbi Benzion Firrer is that the mitzvot only apply in our territorial habitat and …

WOMEN IN THE MILITARY. Q.  Is there a Jewish view as to women in the military? A.  The Talmud (Kiddushin 2b) says, “It is the way of a man to make war and not the way of a woman”. On the whole this has been the fact of life, that …

EASTERN RELIGIONS. Q.  I know why Judaism disagrees with Christianity and Islam, but what does it say about Buddhism and Hinduism? A.  It rejects the negativism of Buddhism, the idea that you and I and the entire universe are nothing: When something in life goes wrong we cannot handle it …